Vermillion said:Better babes in Hokkaido than the fatties in America.
damian said:Massive over investment with zero forward planning in a country with no culture of true recreational lifestyle, let alone skiing culture. It is a basket case made in Japan, as only the Japanese can make it (bless them, they get it very wrong quite often)
Sandy said:Most Japanese workers never get home before dark, summer or winter, so there's no time for a true recreational lifestyle!!! (at least in the cities)
damian said:Sandy said:Most Japanese workers never get home before dark, summer or winter, so there's no time for a true recreational lifestyle!!! (at least in the cities)
I know this well. Very long commutes are a part of the problem, but so to is the entrenched culture of work/company first, never leave the office until your boss does, sit around and do very little in the meantime, plus sadly, a poor family setting (most Japanese male career men do not share a bed with their wives)
My wife works for a successful company in Tokyo. She eventually negotiated working from Hakuba 2 days a week which allows her more productive working, less time commuting, more time with family, 8 hours sleep instead of 5, more happiness.
To improve their work performance she is almost forcing some of her employees to do the same (SOHO)... and the resistance is huge.
None of the workers in her company quite understand (nor respect) her drive to enjoy life so much. She is Japanese, a woman god forbid, she is very successful, and, I think, a role model for the salary men that are getting it so wrong.
Vermillion said:Work less hours, but more productive hours is much better than working 10+ hours a day and doing very little in that time. Culture is slowing shifting though from the correspondence I get between the Japanese arm of our business and us here in Melbourne. In the past you could afford to have 'zero time' or 'non-value adding' time in your life, nowadays it's all about going like stink while you're there and then getting out of there to enjoy yourself or do something else. If I had to work 10 hours a day I would work less hard (good grammar) and probably get less done that the 8 hours I put in currently.
churchy said:I'd love to live in japan for a time, but i don't think i could handle the work culture if i were to work "in industry" - i'd have to do something alternative or work for an international...
fattwins said:When I lived in Kyoto I put in 12 hours a day and got paid pretty well at first. Then the company wanted me to do the same hours without the overtime. basically changing the rules of the game. I would be paid for the time in the classroom. Go to a school in the morning, commute to another school and teach all afternoon. The commuting was considered non payment. The company however said that I could do the afternoon shift only for the same amount of money. Because I did that I became Madou Giwazouku. Which means the man that sits by the window or the man they are trying to push out. I quit and re-thought my lifes plan.
Life is just way too short. Try to make the best of it while you can. I think the younger Japanese are seeing this and they really dont want to get into the company craziness but in the end that is the corporate culture here.
K@os said:had a really unpleasant experience in Shinjuku........both my girlfriend and I think we were the victimes of drink spiking. No memory of anything, violently ill in the morning, all of our cash gone, large charges from 2 different clubs on both of my cards. Very scary experience. Disputing charges and have reported the incident to the Japanese Embassy. I just hope I can get my cash back![]()
K@os said:I have no idea where we were. The last I remember is being led to a club. dont remember entering, dont remember leaving.
My gf and I both had around 20,000 yen each - all gone. $1500 taken from one CC, $3500 from the other.
So scary
churchy said:yeah, kabukicho is not the nicest place... i spent a few hours there one night with mates a few weeks back. we spent a while looking for somewhere to have drink and in the end we gave up and just spent the night teasing the bouncers/touts and wasting as much of their time as possible. good fun at the time, but probably not the best idea in retrospect...
churchy said:sandy: electrical engineer working in instrumentation. the +1 works in finance/tax, so she's more optimistic about finding work for an international which would leave me free to play dad or find something outside the realms of my current career path....
damian said:Tokyo is a fantastic (big) city to work in if you like snow - one of the best in the world.
fattwins said:When I lived in Kyoto I put in 12 hours a day and got paid pretty well at first. Then the company wanted me to do the same hours without the overtime. basically changing the rules of the game. I would be paid for the time in the classroom. Go to a school in the morning, commute to another school and teach all afternoon. The commuting was considered non payment. The company however said that I could do the afternoon shift only for the same amount of money. Because I did that I became Madou Giwazouku. Which means the man that sits by the window or the man they are trying to push out. I quit and re-thought my lifes plan.
Life is just way too short. Try to make the best of it while you can. I think the younger Japanese are seeing this and they really dont want to get into the company craziness but in the end that is the corporate culture here.
K@os said:we had to catch a flight, so had no time to contact police.
We were both violently ill and as soon as we woke up we knew this was no normal hangover. We both said when we woke up that we thought we were drugged. I dont remember entering or leaving any club.
We tried to make it to the Narita Express Bus, but could not walk, so we caught a cab and paid around $300AU to get to the airport. My gf threw up all the way there and had to seriously hold it together to get on the flight........it breaks my heart to think about the danger I placed her in, I should have been smarter than that, even though I have no idea what happened....quite emotional right now.
I have reported it to the Japanese Embassy in Melbourne as per the Australian Embassy's advice. I have canceled my debit card, which is linked into my savings, but my Credit Card provider advised that it probably isnt necessary to cancel the card as usually it is just one huge charge. I will also need to be able to use something in the next 5 days. I guess if another charge comes up that will be proof that the transactions weren't authorized. They said this kind of thing comes out of Tokyo every week.
I'd love some help FT, but I really don't know what can be done.
smitty484 said:Maybe a blog in wikiski from those in the know?
And that is really shit kaos, sounds like something you would expect in Bali, hope you guys are ok.
Must admit I've never heard of this happening before, but I have never spent time in Tokyo before. When I do I'll be much more careful after reading this.
smitty484 said:Maybe a blog in wikiski from those in the know?
Must admit I've never heard of this happening before, but I have never spent time in Tokyo before. When I do I'll be much more careful after reading this.
K@os said:We were just out for a bit of fun - 1 more hour of drinking after splitting up with our other 2 friends....we should have gone home with them. I do remember being told something like 3000yen for 1 hour of drinking, which we agreed to but like I said I cant remember entering or leaving any club, just being led somewhere. I think we got home in the early hours of the morning....so much later than our intended 1 hour of drinking. I do remember being incredibly relieved we made it to the hotel - that thought sticks in my mind, which makes me think I was threatened or something. I dont know how we made it back, but I think we were led back. My friend says I was smashing on his door and he had to let me into our room, but again, I remember nothing.